Mikolaya Nynka, LPC, NCC

Psychotherapist

Kaya came into my life when my anxiety had reached an all-time high. Kaya’s grounding presence and focus on actionable steps to manage anxiety gave me a much-needed sense of control at a time where things felt incredibly frantic.  I cannot recommend her enough.

~ Sara

Kaya’s understanding of teens, the level of support and comfort that she provides, and the integration of parent and child therapy when needed has given me a priceless relationship with my daughter that I could have never achieved alone, nor have ever imagined to have. It’s a priceless gift for which I will forever be grateful.

~ Jeanette

Since seeing Kaya, I have experienced a significant improvement in my stress management, self-compassion and anxiety. Kaya is always there to listen without judgement. I am very lucky to have found such a wonderful therapist who has helped me to improve my quality of life, and I would recommend her to anyone.

~ Brigid

Kaya has been invaluable in helping me manage my personal and family relationships. When I am in a period of heightened anxiety, she validates my thought process so I feel I am not losing my mind. I know that my life would have been a whole lot different and a lot harder without Kaya as my therapist.
~ Ciara

Mikolaya (Kaya) greatly enjoys her work as a psychotherapist. Kaya has worked in several college counseling centers since 2000. She has helped students address emotional, academic, and relational struggles while maintaining school, work, and family responsibilities. Kaya joined Denville Family Counseling in 2008 and provides counseling to adult and adolescent clients.

Kaya specializes in working with young adults. She is well-versed in how mental health symptoms can disrupt a young person’s life, and works to support the youth and their family during this time. Kaya also frequently works with women on relationship and parenting concerns, as well as anxiety and depression. In addition, she provides career assessment and counseling for those seeking a new career direction.

While combining strength-based and solution-focused perspectives, Kaya balances exploring each client’s past with a movement towards emotional wellness. She offers tools for clients to manage distressing thoughts and feelings, which she draws from mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, and art therapy. She has seen many clients make remarkable changes and choices.

Kaya earned a Master of Education and a Master of Arts degree in Psychological Counseling from Teacher’s College, Columbia University. She completed a Bachelor of Science degree in Applied Psychological Studies at New York University. Kaya received extensive training in Relational Life Therapy under the renowned therapist Terry Real. She also is a New Jersey Licensed Professional Counselor and a National Certified Counselor.

In addition, Kaya had taught undergraduate classes. She is a certified Mental Health First Aid instructor, offering both youth and adult courses. Kaya also teaches QPR, a suicide prevention gatekeeper training. She is passionate about sharing these impactful programs with schools, businesses and communities, as she believes that the skills learned in these courses are critical to our mental health. Kaya can be reached directly at: 973-306-0662.

Kaya came into my life when my anxiety had reached an all-time high. Kaya’s grounding presence and focus on actionable steps to manage anxiety gave me a much-needed sense of control at a time where things felt incredibly frantic.  I cannot recommend her enough.

~ Sara

Kaya’s understanding of teens, the level of support and comfort that she provides, and the integration of parent and child therapy when needed has given me a priceless relationship with my daughter that I could have never achieved alone, nor have ever imagined to have. It’s a priceless gift for which I will forever be grateful.

~ Jeanette

Since seeing Kaya, I have experienced a significant improvement in my stress management, self-compassion and anxiety. Kaya is always there to listen without judgement. I am very lucky to have found such a wonderful therapist who has helped me to improve my quality of life, and I would recommend her to anyone.

~ Brigid

Kaya has been invaluable in helping me manage my personal and family relationships. When I am in a period of heightened anxiety, she validates my thought process so I feel I am not losing my mind. I know that my life would have been a whole lot different and a lot harder without Kaya as my therapist.
~ Ciara

Career Development

Are you a high school student deciding on a college major? Are you in college, feeling lost or unsure of your career choice? Do you feel unhappy in your current job and are seeking greater career fulfillment? If so, career counseling will clarify things for you.

Career development is a lifelong process which is influenced by your personal characteristics, interests, background, and life experiences. Too often people feel pressured to choose a permanent career path. In the career counseling process, you will explore yourself, your long-term options, and most importantly, identify your next career step.

The career counseling process usually takes 5 to 6 sessions and includes:

  • Career Intake
  • Strong Interest Inventory
  • Myers-Briggs Type Indicator
  • Strengths Assessment
  • Knowdell Career Values Card Sort
  • Research tools for different career options

The career intake includes questions about your family career history, your childhood dream jobs, and experiences that have affected your life path. The various assessments are used as tools to explore your interests, personality, strengths, and values. With each session, a list of careers is honed for further research. Kaya will coach you through the research process as you work to discover a good career fit.

Any obstacles to the career exploration process, whether emotional or practical, will be addressed in session. Career counseling is a guide, and the decision about your career is yours. Take the next step to living a life that meets your needs and your passions!

I would recommend Kaya to anyone looking for a career counselor, due to her ability to make the client feel comfortable and motivated. This process was very positive and beneficial, and I really enjoyed working with her.

~ Erika

Kaya is a very easy person to talk to, there is never any judgement. She is extremely caring and makes me feel that everything will be ok. She always helps me make choices that are best for me.

~ Bella

Kaya has made a positive and lasting impression in my life and I would recommend her to anyone. 

~ Cheyene